Perfectly Imperfect
“You are beautiful in each and every way, the world can’t bring you down. You are beautiful no matter what people say.” I’m pretty sure that’s how that verse from that Christiana Aguilera song goes and...
View ArticleWhatever You Did to Get Her: Do That to Keep Her
This weekend I saw a lot of people celebrating life. Weddings, engagements, people uplifting their fathers and grandfathers. There’s one common dominator in all of this. It all starts with a man and a...
View Article7 Awkward Everyday Moments
7 Awkward Everyday Moments When you’re in the restroom, make eye contact with a guy and he doesn’t wash his hands. I can see not washing your hands if you didn’t see me but you saw me see you. Nasty!...
View ArticleYou Can’t Have A Relationship Without A Friendship
You Can’t Have A Relationship Without A Friendship “You can have a friendship without a relationship, but you can’t have a relationship without a friendship.” ~ James Michael Sama When I was younger I...
View ArticleSelective. Exclusive. Not For the Masses
Let me give you all a public service announcement. Men and women are held to different standards. Call it double standards, call it unfair, call it what you want but call it the truth. Women will...
View ArticleSunday Morning Thoughts: The Man vs The Writer
My cousin and I Good Morning World!!! I am on the tail end of a really long work weekend and before I go home and crash I had some thoughts I needed to get out of my head. Last night I had a really...
View ArticleLosing You Made Me Better For Her
There are mornings I wake up and I see you in front of me wrapped in a towel fresh out the shower. There are mornings I’m cooking breakfast when I get off work and I want to come in the bedroom, kiss...
View ArticleDating Tip: Romantic Dates Are More Mental Than Financial
Don’t be the guy making excuses when instead you can be making promises. 1. It cost too much. That’s literally not true; research is fast and easy. 2. Nice restaurants have slow nights, usually Monday-...
View ArticleI Want to Catch You Everytime You Fall- Love Letter #14
Dear Future Wife, On this Valentine’s eve I just want to say good morning, I know it’s early but I couldn’t really sleep last night. I’ve read so much about Valentine’s Day this week and about whether...
View ArticleDon’t Call Her Insecure Unless You’re Willing to Call Yourself Insincere
Cute Sweatshirts What’s worse than being lied to? It’s having the feeling that you’re crazy. Some women call it intuition, some men call it having a feeling in your gut but it’s all the same for all of...
View Article5 Ways I Survived My First 90 Days In A Relationship
Author Demez F. White For me being single meant enjoying life. I never found talking to someone for the first time and staying on the phone with them for two hours awkward. I loved dates and random...
View ArticleThere’s A Difference Between Giving Up and Knowing When Something Just Isn’t...
We all want this but life isn’t perfect. That difference between true love and love. “I’m never getting divorced.” “People in our generation don’t know what loyalty is.” “A man should take care of a...
View Article4 Reasons Your Phone Is Stopping You From Finding Your Soulmate
The hierarchy of things I need to leave to the house. My keys. My cell phone. My cell phone charger. I’m not going to be the writer that gets online and pretends my phone isn’t my lifeline to the...
View ArticleMy Bestfriend Took Me On A Date Yesterday and I Might Leave My Girlfriend For...
Relationships are like jobs in the sense that no matter how great they might be there are days where you’re just tired or moments where you know you have a good thing but you need reminding. Yesterday...
View ArticleIf Your Woman Can’t Tell the Difference Between You Being Controlling or...
@artbysu via Twitter What’s understood doesn’t have to be spoken in most instances but sometimes it’s good to offer reminders. Women love tactfully aggressive and assertive men. It’s been that way...
View ArticleStop With the Small Talk and Plan A Date; It May Change Your Life
It’s easy to be the man that steps up when he’s supposed to step up. When it’s her birthday, you’re on point. When it’s your anniversary, there’s not a better date planner in the world. She’s excited...
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